Meet women near you: finding local flings on Single Lesbians
Want someone close enough to meet up with, not three counties away? Here's how Single Lesbians finds women near you, and how to get found yourself.
At a glance
- The site uses the town on your profile to find women near you; nobody sees your address.
- Every member's daily matches are based partly on distance.
- VIP adds search by city and distance, and shows who has liked you.
- VIP Plus puts you top of daily matches, with boosts to women nearby as an add-on.
A fling works best when getting together is easy. Single Lesbians factors in distance from the moment you join, and gives you ways to narrow things down further when you want to.
Your town is how the site finds women near you
The site matches you using the town or city on your profile, and that's all anyone else sees of where you live: never your address, and never your live location. You can be local without being easy to find.
Every member gets daily matches, and distance counts
Free or paid, you get match suggestions every day, and how far away someone is plays a part in who you're shown. The matching also weighs up what you're looking for – casual, in your case – and how recently someone has been active, so the women it suggests are nearby, after the same thing and actually around.
Search by town and distance with VIP
VIP adds search filters, so you can look for women in a particular city, within a set distance, and by what they're open to. It also shows you everyone who has liked you, so you can see who's already interested. Free members still get daily matches and can browse profiles; VIP is for when you'd rather pick the area yourself. See the plans and prices.
Get seen by women in your area
VIP Plus puts your profile at the top of other members' daily match suggestions. On top of that, a profile boost, an add-on for VIP Plus members, promotes your profile to active members in your area for a while.
| What you get | Free | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Daily matches based partly on distance | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Your town shown, never your address | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Search by city and distance | No | Yes | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you | No | Yes | Yes |
| Top of other members' daily matches | No | No | Yes |
| Boost your profile to women nearby | No | No | Add-on |
Found someone nearby? Take it from here
Keep chatting on the site until you're ready, then meet somewhere public for the first drink. Our guide to first-time hookups covers the rest, from checking she's verified to what to bring.