Lesbian hookups in Leeds: easy ways to break the ice
Not one for opening lines? Here's how to get talking with women in Leeds without the pressure of a cold first message.
Leeds in brief
- Comment on posts and put up a status; VIP comments sit higher in the feed.
- VIP opens the members-only chat rooms.
- Free members can always answer a message from a VIP.
- A polite opener does your reputation score no harm.
If a first message to a stranger feels like a lot, the site gives you a few ways in that don't start with one.
Comment, and post a status
Every member can comment on articles and on other members' posts, and put up status updates of her own. A comment that makes her laugh is a softer opener than a message out of nowhere, and with VIP your comments sit higher in the feed, so they're seen first.
Get a feel for her in the chat rooms
The members-only chat rooms come with VIP. Talking in a group first lets you see who you click with, then take it one to one when it feels right.
Let her message you
Free members can send a limited number of messages a day, but they can always read and answer a message from a VIP. Unlimited messaging comes with VIP, so if you'd rather do the asking, that's the plan to look at.
Keep it friendly
Members are rated on how they treat each other: one-click feedback lets anyone mark an exchange up or down, and it all feeds into a reputation score on every profile. A warm, polite opener does your score no harm.
From chat to plans
When the chat turns into plans, our guide to first-time hookups covers the first drink, and our Manchester guide covers making your profile one she'll want to answer.